Why don't you want a relationship? It sounds like you think a relationship would inhibit you from fulfilling your other ambitions. What if you could find a relationship that would support you towards fulfilling these ambitions? For instance, if you are very driven and business focused and she is good at running the household and establishing relationships with people.
How do you know you will get married later? What is your vision of a marriage for convenience? Are children involved?
I think that men who pursue their goals first and expect to find a relationship later sometimes have a hard time finding someone when the time comes. They find that their lack of experience in dating is an even bigger obstacle the older they get. This is just based on the experience of some friends, and I'm sure there are exceptions.
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