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Originally Posted by coLLege kid07  I'd try working on your values to fit what you're trying to explain to everyone. As for trying to save someone...that is a really bad idea. It means you are catoring to someone's insecurity whereas insecurity is not necessarly a good thing in itself. It's like comforting someone when they're doing an unwanted behavior. Maybe on a personal level it looks like you're helping them, but on a spiritual and emotional level you're actually hurting them...causing them to make it feel like doing that "behavior" is a good thing. Maybe it is you that need's the saving...=/ What do you really desire in a relationship? What things are truly important to you when it comes to relationships? My suggestion is find out where your values truly lie and from there you'll be able to live the life you truly want. Good luck  |
Well i already know what my values are,i've talked about them on this thread too i'm sure..i value a friendship first to build a good foundation,i value honesty and loyalty. I value equality. And when you said maybe i need saving too...the more we use that word the more i dont like it...because it implies that i am in danger LOL I just want to love somebody! I want to experience true love! I want what everyone wants.