I'm not saying you shouldn't break up, that's your call, but if you just have a general sense of 'the grass is greener' boredom it may help if you inject more excitement into things.
If you fall into a rut and do the same boring stuff all the time, it's easy to blame the relationship or her for being boring when what you're doing is more to blame.
Go out more, go to new places, do new things, try new things in bed, hang out with different people together, and so on. It may take away a lot of the boredom. Or maybe not.
Also, look at your own life. Is it on a downswing? Are you vaguely dissatisfied with things overall? Are you a bit unhappy? In these cases it's easy to be seduced by the (idealized) concept of being with someone new and think that will make you feel better. I find this happens with my own relationship. When I'm a bit down on life I imagine how great it would be to be a bachelor again. I think 'man, my life would be great if I was free to go out and hook up with some random girls.' When life is going better, I stop thinking that way.
Last edited by Scorpio; 12-08-2006 at 09:29 PM.
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