Originally Posted by Peyem
Here's some things I've done and didn't enjoy, and the reasons:
Dancing -- meet women
Learn Spanish -- Job opportunity enhancer/fall back plan
Drink/Party -- meet people (I don't even like alcohol)
Join a Fraternity -- open myself up (horrible idea, the second I got in I wanted out)
Take art classes -- I was envious of people that could draw well
Gym/Exercise -- Make people like me via my physique (I still exercise though as it's healthy)
Gosh I can relate....at least to most of this.
I think the only thing that I've ever done that I've truly enjoyed without even a hint of thinking I was doing it for anyone else is going on a rollercoaster. If I could go on a rollercoaster everyday, then I would be a happy person I think. lol I know this probably seems odd, but I truly feel free when I'm experiencing the thrill of the ride. I just don't have enough money to go to a theme park everyday for my relief....so I'm just stuck in my pitiful existence. Sorry I can't help with any advice. But I can definitely relate to some of the stuff you're saying.