Hi Clueless
It seems that you already have some good advice - for this relationship, and indeed ANY relationship to work you must look within and see what your own emotional intentions are. Do you like this guy so much because you feel he will solve your issues, or make you feel more complete? Is it the idea of the relationship that you like rather than actually the soul which you are coming into contact with? I only ask becuase I have been repeating this pattern of neediness for many of my thirty-odd years and it is only recently that I have had the courage to admit it and begin to deal with it. It is my firm belief that you must ready yourself by beginning to believe in your own perfection and completeness BEFORE you can even begin to choose to share that successfully with another. My advice is to take a step back, meditate on your true desires and work on feeling full and amazing, then I'm sure you will attract him anyway. Don't play games, be true to your intutitions but put the work in on your self. Good luck!
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