I don't think there is any one specific way to turn this around, but if you make a commitment that you want to work at becoming more positive then the tools and strategies that you need will come to you. So posting right here, saying out loud that what you are currently doing is not working and you want to find a better way, that is the first step and if you will just keep on with that focus you will find your way.
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~Lauxa~ |