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Originally Posted by placebo  My change in relations with women happened when i figured it out that if you flirt with 10 women in one night, nine of them reject you and only one likes you, your succes ratio isn't 1/10 = 10%. IT IS 1/10=100%. Try thinking this way, it helped me a lot. |
Perfectly stated, placebo. After all, you're only going to date one woman at a time, right? (If you're the "player" type, I don't think this is the right forum for you.)
songwriter, I think part of your problem is what Wulfen said; these women are giving you numbers out of kindness, not necessarily out of interest. My two cents:
-When you call a woman after receiving her number, wait at least one full day but no more than three.
-If you're going to ask her out for the weekend, do it by Wednesday. Many women already have their plans set by Thursday (at least in the U.S., but your culture may be different).
-Study up not necessarily on how to impress women, but how to read body language so you know when women are impressed by you. It's easy to simply do the right things, but knowing that she's going to say yes
before you ask her out will save you a lot of stress.