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Originally Posted by Kazeko  I think you should choose the "right" girls. If you deceive a girl, if you tell her you love her and want to marry (for example), and then have sex and leave - this is not good, surely. That's where you really "dumb" them.
We can raise standards a bit. If you know from the beginning, that a girl have some feelings about you, if you know it would hurt her a lot if you "use her body" and leave - it is also wrong to have plain sex and nothing more with her.
But if the girl wants just sex, not relationship, just as you do (or let's call it "sex relationship") or short-term relationship - that is a fair deal which is totally correct. None gets hurt. |
i perfectly understand what you mean.I don't know how those girls may think, but when i have relation with them, we never think about marry or something else, it's a short-term relation as you said, we enjoy time being with each other, and sex is a part of it, then we just stop the relation just as it must be, with this way some girls might be a little hurt, some don't. the problem is i may feel bad by myself when can't find true love.
and i also want to say that i'm very young, so we are at the age of enjoying without thinking, right?