[Kazeko]

Do you focus on breathing in, or on breathing out?

I usually don't do "breathing exercises", I breathe in and breathe out naturally Although (as I've already told) - it surely can be useful sometimes to do some "focused breathing" in order to get short-term results. But I don't want to be forced to do it, like "ok, from now and forever I'm focused on breathing in (or out)". I want to be free and open-minded (as I already am).

To be honest, Rose, it seems, that you've made yourself a "workers" religion, as you're too attached to the concept. It is great that you like it and get results. It is great also, that I don't like it (I'd even call it B.S., please don't start a holy war against me ), and that I get results looking through another set of lenses. We all have different paths and different lessons to learn.

The exact same can be said about what you call the "true" lightworker's point of view.

Translate: "I want to be needed, I am identified with my role as a helper." So it's all about me. In my opinion this is ego and comes from a position of weakness, not love.

Absolutely correct. We're all darkworkers. Even the best "enlightened" intensions can always be interpreted "from the dark corner". You can not throw your ego away. But eventually you can transcend in to the whole new level. And to become a lightworker. Without giving yourself this mind-constructed label.

I don't think it's my duty to help, love and support every person who needs it. First, duty is related to control and has nothing to do with love, in my eyes. Second, helping this person might not be the smartest choice. I could have other things to do that are more important when I keep the best interest of all in mind.

Again, more important to whom? To you? Or to the entire world? And who decides the difference? It's all about power... when a single person pretends to be the whole world, separating oneself from others.

If you want to serve - do it silently and naturally, as you breathe. The sun shines for everyone, not for the chosen ones.

Alas, the very first things many newborn lightworkers do - is that they trumpet loudly about their "lightworkingness"... and my ears are already tired. So, any of brand new "servants of light", my words are for you: stop talking. Stop pretending. Do something already. Get yourself busy. Let your actions and results see if you're a lightworker indeed. Oh, sorry, I forgot. It's not about actions and results... it's about thinking and talking. Now I understand why I dismiss this whole concept as useless. Thanks everyone.

A lightworker's focus is not so much the well being of others as individuals no matter what, it's the well being of the whole system.

From the "workers" concept it sounds not like any focus, but like an absense of focus at all. (Immune system cells massively sacrifice themselves when they fight diseases... no matter what.)

Although from my "lightworkers and darkworkers are just the same" perspective it sounds like a common sense.

But we're really getting off-topic here... let's not derail the thread.

Totally disagree. The topic is: How do you know if you're a darkworker or lightworker? That's exactly what we're talking about.