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Originally Posted by mchenrycruiser  I DO NOT EFFIN have the luxury of doing something im passionate about!I CANNOT EFFIN get a job as a bartender or waiter....... I am not attractive enough to get those jobs plus I live in an area where there are not that many of those jobs anyways.
I need someone to tell me what to do and not schooling that will take years,I need something right now. |
Wow, there seems to be a lot of negative stuff at work within you.
A nasty attitude is not the way to get someone to 'tell you what to do' it will likely lead someone to tell you where you can go.
Something you could do right now is get off the computer and go apply to jobs at local places near you. That would solve your immediate need for a job, but won't go any further in helping you develop as a person.
I feel that if you don't change your thinking you'll end up with another go-nowhere security job and come back online to this site or one like it at age 37 asking for someone else to 'tell you what to do'
That would be unfortunate.
Some general ideas for ya, hopefully one or many will resonate with you and you'll
take action:
- brainstorm what you're good at, enjoy doing, jobs you'd enjoy and research ways to get into them
- read: Goals! by Brian Tracy and Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
- start an exercise program and start eating better and drinking tons of water.
- DECIDE to take control of your life
- think about where you want to be in a year, and list the steps you'd need to take to get there
I found in my personal life experience that
once I stopped whining about what i didn't have, couldn't do, or what would be too hard, too long, hopeless, useless etc...
and decided to take action, everything seemed to get so much easier and successes kept on coming.
Best of luck to ya