Great point Angela, I was thinking the same thing while writing that post.
I know that Phantom, but I think that people who are recently dead might not immediately be able to just let go of all those earthly ideas because they were living there for 80-90 years and that has an effect on the individual, you can't just shrug it off, it has to be dealt with. Although,I do agree that eventually they will let go of all those earthly things, but I just found it kind of dumb to just think that when you die, you immediately let go of all the things that made up your earthly existence, it just seemed really unlikely to me to happen that way.