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Old 12-08-2006, 03:14 AM   #8 (permalink)
Lychee
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Originally Posted by Adam View Post
Instead of dictating in your intentions what qualities she must have, why not take a different approach? You know, and whatever takes care of manifestations knows, what specific qualities you really want, and which ones will attract you to her in the first place... so go ahead and leave those details out of the visualizations and intentions.

Instead, make it clear that this person should be compatible with you, and should be a person who you are willing to be compatible with as well.

Here's an example of what I'm saying... Instead of saying "she must be smart, funny, and honest" you could say "For the greater good of all, in its own perfect time and perfect place, I intend to have a very long term relationship with a woman who is compatible with me, and who I am compatible to."... or something like that.

That last paragraph makes sense. Do you think that asking for specific characteristics would be a bad thing? Such as, "We both love each other very much, he is a serious person, we have fun walks together, etc."

Would it be better to say "I want to marry a person whom God sees best for me"?
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