[blazer1]

There have actually been studies on this.

It turns out ... there is a difference between what woman want, and what they need.

What woman want is a man who is the total opposite of what they need. They are sexually attracted to men who are selfish, arrogant, cocky ... basically more masculine.

But what they need is a man who is sensitive, caring, loving, giving and kind - a softy.

Perhaps the softy gurantees he will stick around to look after the children and her?

This is not to say the first type cannot be sensitive, caring etc ... it's the predominant display of actions which constitutes to ones frontmost character.