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Originally Posted by mercuryrising  Not that I can speak for Rockchick here, but I think she means she wants someone who is real. Real guys are not greek gods. They are imperfect. No one has it all together.
I've been in relationships with women who put me on a pedestal and wouldn't allow me to just be a normal human being. Guess how long those relationships lasted? |
Yeah you interpreted that pretty good! Real,yeah...like a guy who lets his insecurities show. But,ironically,thats probably why i tend to like bad boys because i know deep down they ARE real (i mean,obviously EVERYONE is real),i just want to dig down to that part and get him to trust me enough to expose it. I want to work for it.
Here's a good analogy. You're walking through a field of flowers and you want to pick one. All the flowers are beautiful,in full bloom,waving in the wind practically begging for you to pick them. I'm the girl who looks for the flower that is a little bit smaller than the others,that hasnt fully bloomed yet,was stepped on a few times,and is afraid that,in the shadow of all the other flowers,he will never be able to bloom and never be seen as beautiful. But i find this flower,pick it,and take care of it,knowing that soon it will completely bloom and be thankful that i saved it,out of ALL the flowers,i chose to believe in the one no one else was willing to save.
Damn that was beautiful if i do say so myself!
