In reading your post I must ask if this really has anything at all to do with this other person? I don't think it does really. It is about the beliefs you hold about yourself that block you.
This non relationship which you desired to become a relationship is symbolic for you of something deeper, some inner beliefs... and that should be explored.
The first thing to do then I guess is to acknowledge it really has nothing to do with her specifically. Then you can refocus within where the answers lie. Remember the experience with this person were the effect of your beliefs & thoughts not the cause of them.
I cannot tell you what those beliefs are, only you will know that.
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