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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  lol well,then,i like insecure guys who dont let it build into cockiness...i like them to be humble and down to earth.
I dont like confidence because to me its like theyre saying 'I know i can get this girl so i expect to". I dont like when guys expect that i will like them,or expect it to work out. Thats probably why i like insecure guys cuz they don't KNOW they can get what they want,so they kinda go around feeling like nobody will like them,which makes me like them MORE,and then when i DO like them,they seem almost like they have been saved. I have this wierd thing for saving people,i dont know what it is. but to me the ultimate situation would be to become friends with a guy who is shy and insecure with women but we slowly build up the friendship and then suddenly one day we both just realize we love each other and then i can prove to him that he is worth loving.
I suppose somebody here will dissect that and tell me that means something about my psyche,go right ahead though LOL |
thats pretty interesting. I'm genuinely curious, how long do those relationships last? if he is insecure to begin with, what kills the attraction in the relationships that didn't last?