[Curyous]

I'd really like to try the subjective reality mindset, but there is one thing that is hindering my progress to get there. I currently enjoy meeting people because of the ideas they have and different perspective etc - they enrich my life.

If all people are just projections of my own consciousness, then, to me, that is not exciting, I like the prospect of people doing better (or different) things than what I would have thought of.

This is especially relevant when looking for a partner - especially someone who will expand me and bring joy to my life just because of the way we interact. I like the aspect of joining with somebody else - what's the point if they are already me? For me, 1 + 1 > 2, ie me + not me = greater than both of us. me + me doesn't seem to have the same appeal.

Please help.


Thanks,

Curyous