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Old 06-28-2008, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by cylon View Post
There's intention one (rockchick wants a real man):


Here's intention two:


....which cancels out intention one.

definition of insecure:



So you want a clingy, insecure man who is confident and has a life of his own.
I dont see where i said i wanted him to be confident...to me confidence=cockiness. And i didnt say i wanted a clingy guy,i want the OPPOSITE of clingy. Maybe you read that wrong LOL

By insecure i mean,deep down being afraid he won't be loved enough. I want someone who has friends and hobbies and doesnt need constant approval,but who lets down their guard and reveals sensitivity and honesty about his fears and insecurities. I think insecure sounds bad,i dont know what the word is for what i'm trying to say...like when a guy gets kinda quiet and shy and doesnt think he deserves to be loved. I like to prove him wrong Like if a guy would say "she would never like ME". Maybe that isn't insecurity then,but i hope you get the idea.
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