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Originally Posted by Lauxa  ... this is the only good thing I can visualize right now and I'm not going to let you take it away from me!  |
Wait a second, is this that anger thing happening again?
You go right on ahead with your fantasy. It's just my experience socially that when I generate interest, fascination, love, and connection for others, people are magnetically drawn to me, and when I'm focusing on myself (negatively
or positively) it doesn't work.
I used to be horribly, painfully shy, and 99.999% of my shyness was self-consciousness. When I bagged the self-consciousness, magic happened.