when you ignore others, and act selfishly ... you are painting a picture of yourself as someone who is selfish and doesnt care about anyone else.
there is nothing wrong with this, but you need to be smarter and create the illusion that you Do care about others.
This may mean you have to from time to time do things you dont want to, in order to uphold or create the image you are not so selfish.
i totally understand your problem.
so just be strategic, pick those things in life that take the least amount of effort, but have great returns in terms of creating the image of yourself as you are someone who Does care about others.
if you get me.
interesting post.
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