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Originally Posted by Radical  Why don't forget about your arms? If you did then they wouldn't be a problem to you - what you observe creates your reality.
Also, no one will be thinking you look stupid. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves! |
While that's a vaild point, it's not always the case. Why not just learn a way to be comfertable with your arms, thus, having good body language AND not needing to worry about it anymore? It'll take a lot more effort to conciously ignore the akwardness in your arms than just dealing with it.
A lot body language is subconcious, you don't need to think about it.