Digit,
I lean toward agreeing with you although I am nowhere near "whole" or "enlightened" or anything of that sort.
From the non-dualist perspective, the lightworker/darkworker dichotomy is just another false creation of the ego. And it even seems, dare I say, silly? I see some of the kids in this forum saying they're "gonna be a darkworker" like they're trying out a new character in some fantasy RPG video game or something.
Now reality might not actually be "real." It might not be objective. But it ain't World of Warcraft.