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Old 06-24-2008, 07:46 PM
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I'm not a girl, but..

One thing that occurs to me, is a guy should not change or mold his character, in order to fit what pleases, a (typical) woman. He should live his life, and be the person he wants to be, for himself; not to make anyone else happy.

A woman can sense when a man is adapting himself to her. To fit in with her needs and wants. If she senses him changing to fit her, she'll rightly conclude that he lacks integrity and inner strength. She's more likely to want a man who has his act together, and has internal strength, knows himself, knows his own mind, and cannot be manipulated.

So, really, I'd say the whole precept of this thread is flawed.

Don't be the kind of man that you think women will want, be the kind of man, that YOU, will feel proud to be. Women can then, either take you or leave you, that's up to them.
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