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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  No,i've never had that happen actually. I have more self control and patience than that. I've hung out with guys for as long as 3 months without even kissing them. Thats usually the "deal or no deal" time frame for me,after 3 months i either wanna be their girlfriend,or run away as fast as i can LOL And it is usually cuz the guy is moving too fast for me. FRIENDS FIRST i tell them! But,they cant think with their upstairs brain  |
Three months is a long time to make a guy wait. We aren't meant to think with our upstairs brain when it comes to the ladies. We're supposed to get together and reproduce. That's why we are attracted to each other in the first place!
Sex and intimacy are important to men (and women), just the way it is. It's normal and natural to want to get close, early. That's what all those crazy chemicals going through your system are saying to do--get closer!
Their upstairs brain is saying, "wow three months and this girl still doesn't want to be with me. She must not like me very much."