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TheFlyingMan · 12-07-2006, 04:25 PM

Hi guys,

I've been visualising a new relationship, but I have a few questions:

1) In terms of what we do together, and so on, it's always the same. But in terms of what she looks like, it always changes. Does that matter? I don't have a solid image of what she looks like, and just whoever I happen to see in magazines that day or something (there is a definite type I like). Do I have to visualise one look and stick with it?

2) Are there any "safeguards" that you guys use? This is before I discovered the Secret, but my past girlfriends have flaws like - frigid in bed, chronic liars, erm.. dismissive. I think I intended a new girl to be good in bed, honest, and veyr affectionate as a result. However, it's been a case of be careful what you wish for, as my most recent one which ended a few weeks ago, was all that. But she had a very disturbing past to get her skills in bed, and she's very clingy, and she's too honest to the point where she's hurtful.

Cheers!

12-07-2006, 04:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
TheFlyingMan Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 168	Relationship Visualisation Questions Hi guys, I've been visualising a new relationship, but I have a few questions: 1) In terms of what we do together, and so on, it's always the same. But in terms of what she looks like, it always changes. Does that matter? I don't have a solid image of what she looks like, and just whoever I happen to see in magazines that day or something (there is a definite type I like). Do I have to visualise one look and stick with it? 2) Are there any "safeguards" that you guys use? This is before I discovered the Secret, but my past girlfriends have flaws like - frigid in bed, chronic liars, erm.. dismissive. I think I intended a new girl to be good in bed, honest, and veyr affectionate as a result. However, it's been a case of be careful what you wish for, as my most recent one which ended a few weeks ago, was all that. But she had a very disturbing past to get her skills in bed, and she's very clingy, and she's too honest to the point where she's hurtful. Cheers!