You're all missing the point of the original poster.
He never once claimed that the person doesn't love the family anymore or that this was kept hidden from the other partner.
Just because a person has sex with another person doesn't mean he doesn't love the original person. The vast majority of guys watch porn and masterbate thinking about it, does that mean they love porn more than their significant other? It is simply society that has told you with Judeo-Christian values that monogamy is the preferred choice. It's the same kind of belief that made people think slavery was okay, or that women were not allowed to work. |