Well I guess there is more than one perspective on the issue!
My question is, if you love your partner, why cheat?? Okay, for various reasons it happens... but I don't think it's natural or healthy necessarily (unless it's already agreed upon by the couple that they will have an open relationship).
Naturally, the partner who has been cheated on will have a lot of jealousy and insecurity issues, such as "Why aren't I enough?" "What has he/she got that I haven't got?" etc. etc. Which I think is perfectly normal!
Yes, it's possible to get over infidelity, but I don't think it's a natural expectation that you SHOULD get over it. If the relationship is worth saving, then you can work at getting over it, but it generally also means that to move on the cheating partner has to STOP cheating! I think it would be a very understanding woman/man who would happily allow their partner to go and seek satisfaction elsewhere.
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