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Originally Posted by fitx3  Robc, I think you are very normal. I truly believe that men have a basic drive that has been passed down for many, many years that trails back to the cave man days. Man must pass out his seed to every possible female to keep the clan growing and strong. I think if we all had a normal childhood, meaning that our parents didn't screw us up somehow (there are many variables), we would all have a healthy sex drive for the most part.
I would say that ultimately when it comes to the men that women are attracted to, most are attracted to something in that man that makes them feel secure. This is all different depending on what makes her feel secure. For example, a woman who grew up in poor conditions with a father who could not provide security to his family yet still maintained good values may likely be attracted to a hard working man with a steady income. The woman who grew up in poor conditions with a nagging mother who continuously needed more and more may grow up to attract a rich but unscrupulous man. A woman who grew up in a very controlling family environment may be attracted to the outlaw biker. I'm sure you get my point. It all goes back to our childhood. But with that said, there is one thing for sure and that is ALL women like strength. A woman who feels secure at the side of an unsightly and frail rich man will always check out the financially struggling fitness buff, whether she's aware of it or not. This is most likely to happen during her ovulation cycle. Us women too have carried a lot back with us from the days of the cave!  |
The more i read on this thread the more i think i am really abnormal LOL First,regarding this post about security,i couldn't care less about that,cuz to me,being in a relationship isnt about security,its about love. Also,regarding RobC's post...i also LOVE shy insecure guys!! Guys who are confident come off as cocky to me,arrogant. I love it when a guy is shy and insecure,when he acts like he really wants me to like him but he is afraid i dont
