 Intuition or silliness?
Okay, so here's my story.
My bf broke up with me after cheating on me and chose to be with this other woman. Not only did he choose to be with someone else he decided to marry her. He agreed to marry her before he even broke it off with me. He was even planning dates with me at this point while accepting someone else's hand in marriage. I understanding logically that there is no going back. I know it.
Now the most sensible thing to do is to simply move on. Which is what I'm doing. I have an active social life and so that's keeping me busy. The only problem is that I feel like we're not done yet. I have gotten rid of most things that actively remind me of him and also deleted his phone number all the sort of sensible things that need to be done to move on. I can't seem to get out of it though. I mean the universe keeps bringing them (the girl and him) into my awareness. It took me awhile to cry about it and all that by now I have and I feel like I've gone through the emotional release. I've even come to a point where I see that all of this is for the best. It is how it should be, and reading Angela (one of the moderators here) comments on a piece on cheating I agree with it and it resonates with me.
I should point out that it's been almost 2 months since we broke up and I found it hard to go cold turkey in the first month but now I havent' been in touch for another month and dont' feel a strong urge for it.
The only problem I'm having is that sense of intuition that we're not done yet. I can't logically explain it. Is it just residual hope that everyone feels at the end of a relationship or is there something to it? This is my first proper break up so I haven't got much to compare to. Also I'd like to add that I believe I've had closure, so it's not that. I have asked him all I could possibly want to ask.  |