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Originally Posted by Averbisadverbera  I've read every entry on this site. Read everything on seduction and relationships out there, from The Game by Neil Struss to How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dane Carliege. None of it has ever helped me, man. I try my best to put it into practice but I always fall flat because I care so much about what the other person thinks. |
Hmm, Carnegie is more technical, can be useful for business people, but not oriented to real values. It is great book and I like it, but don't actually do what the title says.
You need to read "7 habits of highly effective people" of Stephen Covey, if you didn't already? (I must add affiliate link on this
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You must understand other person first. Not act empathy and pretend interested in someone's life, but understand he/her as you understand, let say english language.