Well, if you want my take, as a male:
The first thing we notice generally is a girl's looks and her energy. Looks are quite predominant for us on first approach but energy attracts us, too. I know a couple women who are heavy but are attractive. Something just draws me to them; I think it's their positive outlook on life and the "go-getter", a person who knows what they want and can get it. I believe that the vast majority of men notice looks first; it's something I notice in the people around me. Nothing wrong with that - looks can be improved, bodies can be made fit, etc.
If I'm gonna spend a lot of time with ya I enjoy deep discussions on intellectual things, as well as random horsing around. That's probably more personal to me than all men in general as I just enjoy that stuff in general and your sex really doesn't matter.
In chemistry terms I like bubbly women who are attractive. Does that answer your question?
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