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Old 12-07-2006, 06:38 AM
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The only reason you feel threatened by rejection is the belief that acceptance can do something for you. So, the only reason you care about what people think of you is because you believe that their judgment can either hurt you or save you, neither of which is true.
Superbly put, you hit the nail on the head. Its a horribly false and damaging belief that has caused me great amounts of inner turmoil. I think I need to print this out and have it tattooed on my forehead.
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