Well the lists and thing like that, are things people do when they "ain't feeling it" and try to get themselves back in vibration with the good stuff. Like if you were always intune with your higher self, you wouldn't need to make so many lists, because what you want will come anyway, and much faster. To be in touch with your higher self means no resistance. So I guess even a "twin soul" could arrive faster because you wouldn't resist them.
I don't know. I used to believe there was someone uniquely just for me out there, but in my own neediness, I ended up putting too much importance on each individual girl, because she is OBVIOUSLY the "one". (she wasn't).
So in my case, or at least how I used to be, having the twin-soul thing would probably push people away. For me it wasn't coming from a place of abundance.
I've wrestled with if I'd prefer just a steady stream of women with no strings attached, or a long term relationship with only one woman. Wanting the latter for me has made me put WAY too much importance on each girl, while wanting the former has made me feel more abundant in general.
Wait but we're talking about you.