I dont know how old you all are but consider this:
Men can produce sperm constantly, we have plenty of it. Women have fewer eggs than sperm, and they cannot become impregnated everyday.
Therefore women are more selective on which sperm they choose to accept.
In the lower animal kingdom, the male species primary goal is to have sex with as many women as possible. Human kind is no different.
So when males are friends with females, YES we do want to have sex with them. BUT women, may or may not, they like to have friends and gossip!
And Yes, male friends are friends with each other because it MAY lead them to having sex with other females. Why do you suppose males would like to hang out with other 'cool' men? 'Cool' men have prettier women right?
I have figured women like three things in men:
1) physical strength
2) intellect
3) money.
And these attributes of attractiveness came in that same order.
When we were primal beings, physical strength was important to supply food and safety. Pro-survival - therefore attractive.
Intellect came about when we became self-realised, grew imaginations and the such.
Money is only a recent thing. Money simply means your likely hood of survival is increased proportionally to your cash. Again attractive because pro-survival.
When you sit down and really contemplate what we are ... it is quite sad and plain. But I feel its important to realise why we do what we do.
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