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Originally Posted by Rockchick26   So how can one have good self esteem when there is no self at all? |
Do you see that self-esteem is a trap? It comes from the mind. It's about polarity and comparison to others. That's all ego stuff.
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 You certainly wont attract anyone if youre around a bunch of people talking about things they have in common when youre just standing there smiling being in the moment. |
You'll be the only one in that group experiencing ease and joy and not needing to ego-whore yourself to feel better about yourself. If you're truly in the moment, you won't be feeling lack about yourself anyway. There would be no need to constantly tell people how you are better than sliced bread.