ok i admit i f****** up with having sex for her roommate, but i didn't cheat on her 4 times. how am i suppose to teach her not to cheat on me when she tells me she won't over and over and i believe it, but yet she still does it. do i teach her by not talking to her? then by not talking to her i let him take her, and that pisses me off. there it is, i am selfish. i think i wanted to win her over him
how does she not know it is bad to cheat on someone? you think there is no way she is a narcissist who gets off playing two guys at a time? you think that it is all my fault, and that there isn't a chance that she loves to f*** people over? In the big book of disorders she has all the qualities of a narcissist, and my therapist told me she most likely gets off messing with mine and his head. how am i wrong, i just don't see it. i can understand your analogy with other situations, but not a cheating situation. can you explain with more details?