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You said that thinking you sound hideous makes you more tense. Why? You choose your response so if you are more tense because you know you have a horrible voice then I would suggest that its not the horrible voice that is the problem. Its your belief that having a horrible voice is bad or embaressing or something else detrimental.
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No, when it doesn't go that far.
When I think that I should change my voice (and I'm no singer, but a Toastmaster), while I give a speech that takes up mental space.
It's trying to be something else. Trying conflicts with being in the now.
Not being in the now inturn worsens performance.