One other thing jjm... The fastest way to get rid of hurt is to realize that she is not a bad person, just the wrong person for you. We all do the best that we can every moment of our lives. Although my previous post was written to imply otherwise, she did not in fact mistreat you... You did that to yourself by allowing this type of behavior in your life. Take a little time and think of your part in this drama. Take responsibility for your actions. Then forgive yourself. You did the best that you could at the time and now you have grown and are a wiser man for it. Then once you have accepted this as a growing experience you may even find yourself compelled to apologize to her. (You did after all encourage her behavior and with that done her a great disservice.)
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