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Originally Posted by Wulfen  Hey, and I thought your problem was going to be very hard!
Man, you are already on the right track! You are at this moment suffering from a very common problem, and it's that your phone numbers are not solid, and that's why you get phone flakes.
It's very simple: the girls from which you get the phone numbers (i.e., your number closes, or #-closes), are not that attracted to you. Perhaps they are mildly attracted when you ask for the numbers, but not so much when you call them so they phone flake (in spanish: te dan planton telefonico, colega).
So, what can you do to get rid of this problem? You need to get solid phone numbers. And a solid #-close is when the girl is very attracted to you. And you can get the girl very attracted to you by working on attraction. So you must work on improving the attraction that you create in girls.
If you've read Mystery Method you know that you create attraction by being a challenge, demonstrating higher value and teasing (push/pull and all that). So focus on this on the beginning of interactions with girls, and do not ask for the phone, instead watch for IOIs (Indicators of Interest), like she asking stuff about you, or laughing at your teasing. If you are not getting IOIs, then you are not doing it right, so focus on trying different things until you get IOIs. When you have several IOIs, then you can proceed in the interaction, and compliment her, ask for the number and so on, but not before.
So the summary: focus on create attraction. Watch for IOIs. Do not do anything else until you can create attraction. If what you do doesn't create attraction, change what you do. A wingman can come in handy to spot IOIs that you might miss.
I hope this help. Try it and report back. |
Man, I already see indicators of attractions just being myself, etc. Women use to be attracted to me but not interested in going out with me. They laugh with me, etc.
Stop trying so hard to help me or I will feel guiltly. :-)
Leave it to fate, Steve, God or whatever...