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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  But THAT is why we like that person,BECAUSE they have the qualitities and characteristics that we like! I dont just go around falling in love with anyone,there are reasons why i like them. But i'm past that now where i think a certain guy HAS to be the one...since my "obsession" that i mentioned up there,i have liked about 4 guys since then,although not nearly as much. Of course,they're all famous or semi-famous,but thats cuz i never meet anyone in real life that i like,or that has the characteristics that i like.  Now i feel like a freak for just admitting that. But i cant help it. |
Easy. "Someone who has the same qualities as XYZ."
Obviously, if you already have those qualities in you, then you area match for those qualities in another person.
Knowing someone only through the media or second-hand is not knowing the person for real, so you can't perceive all the qualities except for what you see on the surface. You have to genuinely get to know someone, long enough for the barriers to come down, and see the real person.
Then there's also being a hopeless romantic who gets off on drama and the more you can't have something the more you fall in love with it.