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Originally Posted by fitx3  Oh that's okay...no need to shut up. We can go on and on about this. I find that the less you seem interested in someone, the more they find you interesting! There is a book called The Rules, have you heard of it? It basically explains that women need to act like they don't need men in order to get a man. Men like the chase and lose interest once they catch someone. So a woman needs to make the man work for it a bit. There is another book out there called Why Men Love Bitches which is along the same line as the rules book. Looking back at my life, it's all pretty much true. The guys I melted for walked all over me and the ones I could have cared less for were basically following me around like a puppy. Some people get lucky and find that equal match...good for them. |
I've heard of those books but never read them. But i agree,i have mostly liked guys who didnt like me,and vice versa. But this cant be a guarantee,i mean,then NOBODY would get together. Cuz one you catch someone,you would lose them right away if this was true. So there has to be some balance. I"ve read lots of books on this subject and none of them made any difference so i just gave up and now i dont even try LOL I figure,if i stop looking and some trying to make it happen,it should just happen.