Quote:
It's difficult to explain, but what I desire is a truth and love that doesn't start and end with me, but that was created straight from source, something originally from God. I'd even be happy if being with this guy'd be a challenge instead of mud puddle bliss, as long as I'd believe that this was a match "made in heaven" for the greatest benefit of the two of us, not just a choice made by two kindergarten souls deciding to get together and have a jolly good time.
So this whole discussion about whether there's The One out there or not, it's like I can see why there isn't really if you're simply looking for happiness, and still I can't wrap my mind around the assumption that there's really not anyone out there chosen for me to be with. It actually feels a bit like being told that my soul came here with no purpose at all. Don't get me wrong, life would still be great if that were so, it's just, it doesn't feel right somehow. So part of me still does understand as well if there are people out there looking for The One.
|
[/QUOTE]
Yes, I agree..I used to think that I could have a good relationship with anyone with a certain degree of compatability and hard work
But what I found was that, yes, I can fall in love and love the one I'm with,
but just as finding one's life's purpose is key, I now feel that also applies to
finding one's mate..and must come from the source..with all the other relationships I've had, lessons in preparation for that..
So Twin Flames sounds like that which comes from the source..and if you think about it, finding your other half under the suppostion that you (twin flames) were "one" once but separated sounds all to romantic but somehow makes sense considering that nature works that way...
light&dark, up&down,male&female etc.
I know I can probably be somewhat satisfied in life solo, but it just may be against "nature". That to fully experience life is to fully love yourself as an independent being and eventually join with the "one" that under nature's definition makes you whole.
However, thinking you've found the "one" and trying to manifest with intention where it doesn't work, must mean
- there was too much attachment, desire, or emotion to that concept
- that the source was not in agreemnet with your "choice"
- that the "one" intended exercises "free will".
Sometimes, the "one" intended is the "one" but isn't ready,
to the point that they don't recognize you. Then it's up to you and how you choose to react to the situation. If you react with a push or force, well, then that person must not be the "one". But, if you "know" at a soul level and act with respect, giving space and time to the person intended, the universe will help if it's in agreement that your "chosen one" is for your highest good.
I could be all wrong, but it's the conclusion I've come to...any thoughts?