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Originally Posted by Angela  Hard work, though? Feh. I don't believe hard work is necessary to have a great loving, long-term mutually beneficial relationship. That's an old-wives tale.  |
I tend to agree with you. It shouldn't be hard. It should be fun and rewarding.
I'm at a weird point now where on one hand, I am a man so I am supposed to "go out there and hit on chicks" and be the aggressor, and on the other hand, I'm into IM so I believe I can actually draw people and experiences into my life. So if I do that, I may disappoint myself for not "trying so hard" to MAKE something happen. Maybe it's a guy thing.
The false belief that you have to slave and suffer for anything good seems to cloud most subjects.