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Originally Posted by cylon  Are you saying it's hard work? Or are you saying it's inevitable if you're "tuned-in?" |
I'm saying that when you do make a good match, it's because of the choices you've made, and the same is true when you keep making bad matches.
It's not mere chance when you find yourself in a pattern of having lovers who walk all over you, or ones who won't commit, or ones who are way more smitten than you are. It's no accident!
Hard work, though? Feh. I don't believe hard work is necessary to have a great loving, long-term mutually beneficial relationship. That's an old-wives tale.
