"7) If you're worried about becoming a desirable man, don't take the opinions of women too seriously. Most women couldn't tell you how to be a man, even if they had the inclination to try. Bathe, groom, nurture your health, mind, and spirit. Keep working on your personal development. Eventually, you'll notice women who are "out of your league" starting to give you a second look. Suddenly, you'll realize that everything is going to be splendid!"
What? You think women don't know what they find deriable in a man? That's absurd.