I had a horrible experience with trying to do this. I knew the person i wanted to be with,and for almost 2 years i waited for this moment...i "knew" i was going to be with him simply because i wanted it and i set out my intention and i gave it more energy than anything. Then,i met him,and nothing happened. A big slap in the face. I cried...i blamed the Law of Attraction for not being "real"...it was a very dark period for me because for 2 years i beleived this was going to happen and i had prepared myself for it and didnt even think that it wouldn't work. Needless to say i'll never try that again. The reason why you cant do this is because nothing can control other people,the universe will work its magic but people still have free will. There is no such thing as romantic soulmates,and relationships are never "meant to be". Its harsh i know but its the lesson i learned,and now i am painfully avoiding thinking about or looking at this guy and i'm trying to divert my attention to other things to take my mind off him. This was only 4 months ago so i'm not like,"over" him completely but at least i dont have this false hope that we will be together just because I want us to be.
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