Please, if you haven't had any positive experience at your age with seduction and sexual relationships, it will not come easy to you. I am tall and handsome and have had some experience with women since my teens but I have never felt comfortable around them and have placed an excessive amount of value on their reactions to me.
After the break up with my longterm girlfriend over a year ago and a couple of very unfortunate affairs, I decided to do something about it and turned to the PUA community. A good place to start is The Game by Neil Strauss, just to get a feel for the mindset and different approaches amongst men who are good with women.
From there you can start searching for the approach that may fit you, your personality and problems. There isn't any quick universal method, you have to practice and study (but mostly get in field experience!) for things to start happening. You are a hard case, obviously, but as you don't have your looks against you but only your inner game, it shouldn't be that tough.
The pick up line approach must be combined with some solid inner game work: What is your attitude about women and more importantly your attitude to yourself concerning women. And find one or several men who are good with women, talk to them, study them in field. Go to stylelife.com or Mystery's boards to find men who have the same problems as you do and have overcome them. Get a mentor.
It has been a tough but highly rewarding experience for me to learn the PUA mindset and methods.
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