Patrick, I agree with almost the whole content of your post, except this little thing:
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Is there any right attitude to all women? Well, I guess not.
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Yes it is, just some quick notes:
- be positive, not negative.
- be proactive, not reactive or passive.
- be ambitious, not compliant.
- be entertaining, not boring.
- be a leader, not a follower.
- be mysterious, not predictable.
- be a challenge, not a chaser.
- be sexual, not asexual.
Also about the qualities you mention:
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I myself learned some things about getting girls:
- Be positive
- Be a good listener
- Radiate positivity
- Be charming
- Be yourself, be yourself, be yourself!
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The first ones are OK, but... beware of "be yourself" advice. If the current "yourself" has inherent unnatractive qualities, being yourself will not get you very far. I think what you mean here is "be congruent, and do not fake things in order to get a girl", which is good advice, but if people interpret "be yourself" as "you are ok as you are", it's not that good because your current "yourself" might be unattractive to girls, so you might need to improve yourself. I hope that makes sense
