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Originally Posted by Yoshi  I believe the skills you've gained being able to talk to women with ease is far more valuable than any skill you will learn in the classroom. It is women that men have most difficulties talking to, and if you have improved this part of your game then you have improved yourself as a business man as well.
One thing about learning to pick up women that most of overlook is that it's not about learning the opener's and the smart comments to throw at them, it's about developing a complete inner game. Inner game is much like what this forum is about, personal development in all aspects of life. If you get your looks together, your confidence right, ultimately your life together and it all comes across naturally with desire and passion than this is what is most attractive to women. So I mean learning to pick up women has helped you develop wide ranging aspects of your life which are skills that can also be applied to school as well. Players with real game don't need to get drunk and party like animals to pick up girls, they can do it in the library, at the grocery store, at the gym, etc. |
Yes, it's true. I'm not longer afraid of the approach, and my social life have very much improved. But it also have involved a lot of partying, and made some negative changes as well.
I would like to thank you all for your comments. I now see that I have to reasses my purpose and work to improve other areas of my life, whilst consolidating the improvements I've already made.
I've been reading a bit up on Steve Pavlina and found out that:
I want to be a great public speaker, develop my social networking skills, become an early riser, be more effective in a stress-free fashion like David Allen (GTD) teaches us, erase my emotions of quilt, worrying, worrying to succeed, start my own business, learn SpeedReading, finish my MBA, develop my business skills. In addition I will keep my fitness life style skills and success with women.
This will take years, but It's motivating to know that you have so many areas to improve.