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Patrick · 11-05-2006, 05:37 PM

Please know that you are not alone in this. A good friend of mine is 30, almost 31 years old and has never had a girlfriend nor kissed a girl. Despite the fact that he has good looks, is succesful and intelligent. Another friend of mine is in exactly the same situation, although he is rather small and not really attractive. At least, that's what he thinks he is and thus he is.

They both lack the right attitude towards women. Is there any right attitude to all women? Well, I guess not. But as Wulfer wrote before, women are attracted to positive talk. Negativity turns them away. When you see a depressed girl, you feel sad for her. You don't want to marry her for just being sad. Or do you? If so, you might be really frustrated and that is not a good thing. You'll radiate that and this will also turn off women.

I myself learned some things about getting girls:
- Be positive
- Be a good listener
- Radiate positivity
- Be charming
- Be yourself, be yourself, be yourself!

You'll succeed. It might take time, but you will. Have confidence. Radiate that.

11-05-2006, 05:37 PM	#12 (permalink)
Patrick Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 8	You are not alone Please know that you are not alone in this. A good friend of mine is 30, almost 31 years old and has never had a girlfriend nor kissed a girl. Despite the fact that he has good looks, is succesful and intelligent. Another friend of mine is in exactly the same situation, although he is rather small and not really attractive. At least, that's what he thinks he is and thus he is. They both lack the right attitude towards women. Is there any right attitude to all women? Well, I guess not. But as Wulfer wrote before, women are attracted to positive talk. Negativity turns them away. When you see a depressed girl, you feel sad for her. You don't want to marry her for just being sad. Or do you? If so, you might be really frustrated and that is not a good thing. You'll radiate that and this will also turn off women. I myself learned some things about getting girls: - Be positive - Be a good listener - Radiate positivity - Be charming - Be yourself, be yourself, be yourself! You'll succeed. It might take time, but you will. Have confidence. Radiate that.